{"id":1019,"date":"2010-02-02T21:41:43","date_gmt":"2010-02-03T05:41:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/?p=1019"},"modified":"2010-02-02T21:41:43","modified_gmt":"2010-02-03T05:41:43","slug":"defend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/2010\/02\/02\/defend\/","title":{"rendered":"defend"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>old shit that nobody wants to talk about got dredged up today. After the anxiety passed, I feel like I&#8217;m looking at a pile of unidentifiable artifacts on a beach, pondering its making.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re unwilling to identify and\/or accept your defensiveness, you put those close to you in an uncomfortable situation of not knowing what is safe to talk about. &#8216;I can not believe you would think that about me&#8217; is a sign of that trap. We must consider the thoughts of those close to us with humility, lest we start to believe in our own superiority.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>old shit that nobody wants to talk about got dredged up today. After the anxiety passed, I feel like I&#8217;m looking at a pile of unidentifiable artifacts on a beach, pondering its making. If you&#8217;re unwilling to identify and\/or accept your defensiveness, you put those close to you in an uncomfortable situation of not knowing [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1019"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1019"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1019\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1019"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1019"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1019"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}