It’s funny hearing cheers to “17 year olds and 7 speeds” and “I like your gray hair, it means something is important enough for you to stress about” in the same evening.<\/p>\n
The last couple days I’ve felt some uncomfortable parallels between M and J. Some are silly, like my nose going into pure useless water drip mode recently, and when it did about a year ago. Others are more disconcerting, like body language.<\/p>\n
I went to make a comment tonight about how my last two relationships felt emotionally curtailed, then I thought about it and upgraded it. To the last three. Then again, to the last four. What a year. Then that bothered me, the past year. A year ago was the peak, a relationship that started out feeling very emotionally intense, but which backfired and burned itself out from the inside. Since that turned downhill, it’s mostly been an emotionally unavailable world and I haven’t known quite where to put myself.<\/p>\n
We’ll see where that goes. For the time being, I’m excited about that coming to an end.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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