{"id":1313,"date":"2010-09-18T12:49:46","date_gmt":"2010-09-18T20:49:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/?p=1313"},"modified":"2010-09-18T12:49:46","modified_gmt":"2010-09-18T20:49:46","slug":"pastimes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/2010\/09\/18\/pastimes\/","title":{"rendered":"pastimes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Spring cleaning today, getting rid of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/btmspox\/5001651065\/\">cruft<\/a>, sorting paperwork, a lot of it from five years ago. The domestic partnership agreement with M for health insurance&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>I talked with C a lot last night about relationships. My first two relationships, with H + M, were my only long-term ones. In the five years hence I&#8217;ve dated quite a bit. While refining what I&#8217;m looking for seems like a great idea, it also makes all of this seem, harder. My expectations and standards have changed, raised?, so significantly and feel like I&#8217;ve only come close one or twice to starting another long-term relationship.<\/p>\n<p>I feel helpless to <a href=\"http:\/\/xkcd.com\/55\/\">make sense<\/a> of it. There was a couple times last night when I sort of exclaimed to C, &#8220;but that&#8217;s what I mean! I have all these data points but they isn&#8217;t anything solid coming out of them.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Spring cleaning today, getting rid of cruft, sorting paperwork, a lot of it from five years ago. The domestic partnership agreement with M for health insurance&#8230; I talked with C a lot last night about relationships. My first two relationships, with H + M, were my only long-term ones. In the five years hence I&#8217;ve [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1313"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1313"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1313\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1314,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1313\/revisions\/1314"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1313"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1313"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1313"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}