{"id":1317,"date":"2010-09-20T18:11:16","date_gmt":"2010-09-21T02:11:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/?p=1317"},"modified":"2010-09-20T18:11:16","modified_gmt":"2010-09-21T02:11:16","slug":"directed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/2010\/09\/20\/directed\/","title":{"rendered":"directed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I was thinking about how there isn&#8217;t time for dating someone and spending much time with them, that there hasn&#8217;t really been since I first started dating here. Maybe, a little, back three years ago when I was working for a startup that wasn&#8217;t trying particularly hard at being like a startup. But since then? I wanted to email M about my thoughts, and then I shook my head at myself, because noone has been less receptive to my thoughts then her since C used to tell me that I thought too much in high school.<\/p>\n<p>I was talking about this the other night with C, indirectly. I said that I tend to see people I&#8217;m dating only once, maybe twice a week and he commented on that feeling much more doable than what he usually experiences. The irony of M&#8217;s &#8216;what do you want&#8217; trap was not lost on me at the time, and feels less funny now.<\/p>\n<p>Time to eat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was thinking about how there isn&#8217;t time for dating someone and spending much time with them, that there hasn&#8217;t really been since I first started dating here. Maybe, a little, back three years ago when I was working for a startup that wasn&#8217;t trying particularly hard at being like a startup. But since then? [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1317"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1317"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1317\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1318,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1317\/revisions\/1318"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1317"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1317"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1317"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}