{"id":701,"date":"2009-09-05T23:46:29","date_gmt":"2009-09-06T07:46:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/?p=701"},"modified":"2009-09-05T23:46:29","modified_gmt":"2009-09-06T07:46:29","slug":"defensiveness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/2009\/09\/05\/defensiveness\/","title":{"rendered":"defensiveness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I sent myself a note from my conversations with my mother tonight about family,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>If I challenge what you think it is because I value your opinion.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The internet offers some quotes to identify with:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I respond defensively only when I feel threatened.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>being around defensive people can lead to one-sided conversations or emotionally draining situations<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>You know, I&#8217;m awfully fucking hurt by opening up my heart and getting that in return. <\/p>\n<p>Talking to a friend this weekend she said,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>She is willing to share her body with others but not her heart.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>My jealously twitches first. I recognize it, swallow, step away. It&#8217;s all you can do.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I sent myself a note from my conversations with my mother tonight about family, If I challenge what you think it is because I value your opinion. The internet offers some quotes to identify with: I respond defensively only when I feel threatened. being around defensive people can lead to one-sided conversations or emotionally draining [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/701"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=701"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/701\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":703,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/701\/revisions\/703"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=701"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=701"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=701"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}