{"id":798,"date":"2009-10-24T23:06:19","date_gmt":"2009-10-25T07:06:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/?p=798"},"modified":"2009-10-24T23:06:19","modified_gmt":"2009-10-25T07:06:19","slug":"availability","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/2009\/10\/24\/availability\/","title":{"rendered":"availability"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Conversation this morning glanced my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/?p=791\">niceness<\/a>. Am I nice because I&#8217;m just nice, or am I nice because I like (like like (like more than friends (crush (limerance (love))))) you? (semantics win!) Going out of my way for others is my natural state of being, because I believe it is important and has meaning. Sometimes I point out that this isn&#8217;t a grand ego-free decision I&#8217;ve made and deserve a pat on the back for. The same is true here, this is just the way I am. However, if I blush and squirm when you thank me, well maybe I like you too.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>why do i always ignore your alcohol asides when i otherwise jump in and start a sidebar on the tiniest thing? because i didn&#8217;t wanna risk losing being approachable.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I can&#8217;t think of ever being in a place where I stopped approaching someone because they had honest ideas and feelings to express. I&#8217;ve definitely stopped approaching people who can&#8217;t respond with maturity or can&#8217;t be bothered with the burden of my having feelings that affect them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Conversation this morning glanced my niceness. Am I nice because I&#8217;m just nice, or am I nice because I like (like like (like more than friends (crush (limerance (love))))) you? (semantics win!) Going out of my way for others is my natural state of being, because I believe it is important and has meaning. Sometimes [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/798"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=798"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/798\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":800,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/798\/revisions\/800"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=798"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=798"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=798"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}