{"id":840,"date":"2009-11-06T22:47:39","date_gmt":"2009-11-07T06:47:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/?p=840"},"modified":"2009-11-06T22:47:39","modified_gmt":"2009-11-07T06:47:39","slug":"fear-of-missing-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/2009\/11\/06\/fear-of-missing-out\/","title":{"rendered":"fear of missing out"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>How much of it is not wanting to miss a good time, and how much of it is wanting to be someone that has a good time? Which could be having crazy stories to tell, or getting other people to identify you as fun\/wild\/crazy? The more I think about meaning, the more I&#8217;m afraid of missing out on the larger opportunities. Do I want to spend my evenings drinking and fucking about with friends, achieving short term pleasures, or prepare for something greater, more long term. I&#8217;m tempted to compare this to relationships. I want a meaningful long-term relationship. I joke about how much I&#8217;ve been dating this year, but quantity wasn&#8217;t what I wanted. I&#8217;m on my way to doing more with my time, and it&#8217;s better this way. There&#8217;s some social turbulence, but so it goes.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How much of it is not wanting to miss a good time, and how much of it is wanting to be someone that has a good time? Which could be having crazy stories to tell, or getting other people to identify you as fun\/wild\/crazy? The more I think about meaning, the more I&#8217;m afraid of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/840"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=840"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/840\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":842,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/840\/revisions\/842"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=840"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=840"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=840"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}