{"id":878,"date":"2009-11-24T17:40:08","date_gmt":"2009-11-25T01:40:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/?p=878"},"modified":"2009-11-24T17:40:08","modified_gmt":"2009-11-25T01:40:08","slug":"lifemud","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/2009\/11\/24\/lifemud\/","title":{"rendered":"lifemud"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>J had interesting things to say about a majority of my recent relationships being with people who were functionally stuck in some lifestyle. It isn&#8217;t really a plan over a way issue. I&#8217;m inclined to nail it to the wall with a label of perception.<\/p>\n<p>If this isn&#8217;t where you expected to be, where did you expect to be? Why aren&#8217;t you there? This is a rhetorical question that aligns nicely with the swimming upstream clich\u00e9. However, this is not an indication that you should conform and go with the flow either. It&#8217;ll just go a lot easier if you stop fighting it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>J had interesting things to say about a majority of my recent relationships being with people who were functionally stuck in some lifestyle. It isn&#8217;t really a plan over a way issue. I&#8217;m inclined to nail it to the wall with a label of perception. If this isn&#8217;t where you expected to be, where did [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/878"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=878"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/878\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":879,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/878\/revisions\/879"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=878"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=878"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=878"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}