{"id":969,"date":"2010-01-16T20:01:38","date_gmt":"2010-01-17T04:01:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/?p=969"},"modified":"2010-01-16T20:01:38","modified_gmt":"2010-01-17T04:01:38","slug":"what-you-said-was","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/2010\/01\/16\/what-you-said-was\/","title":{"rendered":"what you said was"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When talking to A recently about her wondering if <a href=\"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/?p=958\">my emotions ever felt like a burden<\/a>, M came up and she said &#8220;no, that&#8217;s a burden ON HER,&#8221; and reiterated asking if they felt like a burden on me. I think I was clear about this in that entry, but the distinction has been interesting hence. Years ago I came to realize the ways I could have satisfied what M really wanted, that is what she wanted but wasn&#8217;t communicating directly. That has come full circle recently, as I give a nod to what M says, which isn&#8217;t the same as how she acts. There isn&#8217;t anything to be said about it, because she is not interested in the conversation. So I must draw the lines, and redraw the lines on my one. Kind of like an emotional sketch artist.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When talking to A recently about her wondering if my emotions ever felt like a burden, M came up and she said &#8220;no, that&#8217;s a burden ON HER,&#8221; and reiterated asking if they felt like a burden on me. I think I was clear about this in that entry, but the distinction has been interesting [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/969"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=969"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/969\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":971,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/969\/revisions\/971"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=969"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=969"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.loftninjas.org\/rants\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=969"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}